This article first appeared in the January/February 2011 issue of QSO: The Voice of RAWNY. Thanks, Lee, for allowing me to reprint it here……..Dan
Ever wonder what it means to be an Elmer? The name implies that it should be someone special. That person would possess qualities you would find in any admirable person or teacher, but what qualities make an “Elmer” so unique? The answer is in the name itself.
The name “Elmer” is unique to Amateur Radio and hams. The person designated as an Elmer is capable of guiding and nurturing his charge on their way to becoming a good ham radio operator. That person would not only teach the student the technical aspect of the hobby, but also good amateur practice and along the way, build one of the most unique relationships you will ever encounter. Both student and teacher are also learning the art of being a good friend. You are learning how to trust and share experiences. You will come to depend on each other and share ideas.
In other words, you have each others back. It is a give and take relationship, because the student also gives his teacher the satisfaction of knowing he has helped him develop his skill in a hobby that will always enhance his life and help mold the qualities of friendship and sharing that will stay with him/her forever. Here is the short version of what my idea of what’s in the name, “Elmer.”
“E” is for Enthusiasm. You should have a sincere interest and excitement about the hobby. You should be able to tell them what a wonderful, life-long hobby they are learning and encourage the student to try new things. Your enthusiasm should be contagious.
“L” is for learning. It is a learning experience for both parties, especially, if it’s the Elmer’s first time. Always keep an open mind. A student may want to try the newer modes, while the seasoned Elmer can teach the student the basic, tried and true methods. There are so many different aspects of the hobby. Each can learn from the other.
“M” is for mentoring. That is the main ingredient in the Elmering process. An Elmer is there to guide the student. It may sometimes be difficult to remember that you are not creating a clone. Your charge(s) will develop their own style. We are individuals, so avoid criticizing the student if he or she does not do things exactly the way you want. In some instances, of course, safety demands that things be done a certain way. It is at this time that the skillful tact of the Elmer will come in handy.
“E” is for Energy, for some of us, is in short supply. You may want to eat your “Go Cereal” before you start a meeting or session with your student. Remember, I mentioned that Elmering is “give and take.” Your student’s enthusiasm may be all the energy boost you need to get you, the Elmer, motivated.
“R” is for Responsibility. The Elmer/Elmeree relationship is a commitment. Be responsible in your respective roles by always keeping and being on time for meetings and just being there for each other. Always try to make time in your busy schedule to answer question or even to just talk over a cup of coffee. The idea is to be a concerned friend, confident and companion and if you follow all the suggestions in this article, the “Elmer” thing will naturally follow.
73, Lee Brandt KC2RBL
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