In his email announcing the publication of a Great Lakes Division newsletter, Director Scott Yonally, N8SY, usually includes a paragraph similar to the following:
So, grab a big glass of whatever makes you feel good, a sweet snack stolen from your wife’s pantry and sit back in your easy chair and have a great read!!
Now, I ask you, is Yonally out of touch or what?
First of all, many, if not most, hams look like they have had one too many “sweet snacks” already, and instead of sitting back in their easy chair, they should be out for a brisk walk.
Second, think about that phrase, “stolen from your wife’s pantry.” I guess that Yonally thinks that only married men are hams and read the newsletter. With those five words, Yonally has excluded:
- teenage hams,
- single hams,
- female hams, and
- hams (like me) that share the cooking duties with their spouses and consider the pantry “their pantry.”
I’m sure that Yonally isn’t being intentionally exclusive, but it’s the thoughtlessness that’s the issue here. It’s the same thoughtlessness that led the ARRL to think that offering the Gil mug as a membership-renewal incentive was a good idea. I’m continually amazed that the ARRL is still offering this mug.
This may be a small thing, but it’s a real thing, and I’d go so far as to say that it’s attitudes like this that are driving people away from the ARRL. People who don’t feel welcome, quit organizations when they feel excluded, and intentional or not, the ARRL certainly isn’t rolling out the welcome mat to many potential members.


